The Good Leader Podcast

The Authenticity Rant: Values vs. Preferences

Episode Notes

Authenticity is a buzzword—but what does it actually mean at work? In this thought-provoking episode of The Good Leader Podcast, Jared breaks down the difference between values and preferences when it comes to being your “authentic self.” Sharing a hilariously awkward camp story, he unpacks why being authentic doesn’t mean throwing professionalism out the window. Discover how to align your values with your workplace and why preferences should never be confused with your core identity. If you’ve ever wrestled with workplace expectations or generational differences, this episode is for you!

Episode Transcription

Description: What does it really mean to be your authentic self? In this short and spicy episode, Jared dives deep into his personal experiences, lessons, and reflections about the fine line between values and preferences in the workplace. Spoiler alert: He’s not holding back. Learn what it takes to bring your authentic self without losing sight of professionalism, purpose, and leadership.

Time Stamps:

• 00:00 - 00:09: Jared teases his take on "authentic self" and sets the tone for a passionate episode.
• 00:10 - 00:28: Quick intro reminding listeners of The Good Leader mission: "Increasing the world's leadership capacity, one episode at a time."
• 00:29 - 01:02: Recap of last week’s episode and the team’s ongoing debates on authenticity in the workplace.
• 01:03 - 01:22: Jared shares his frustrations with how "authentic self" is overused and misunderstood.
• 01:23 - 02:00: Story Time: Jared’s freshman orientation camp experience with the infamous "Wow, Okay" game.
• 02:01 - 03:00: How Jared navigated discomfort while staying true to his values.
• 03:01 - 04:15: Returning as a volunteer—how speaking up changed the camp’s culture and Jared’s leadership perspective.
• 04:16 - 06:15: Connecting it back to workplace settings: the difference between values and preferences.
• 06:16 - 08:59: Breaking down why authentic self doesn’t mean "anything goes" and how to distinguish personal values from professional expectations.
• 09:00 - 11:00: Acknowledging the nuanced dynamics of professionalism, bias, and clarity in leadership.
• 11:01 - End: Closing remarks: “Live your values, know your core mission, and don’t compromise your authentic self—because that’s how you become a good leader.”